Tea at Tympani Lane Records

World Message of Peace

It is a quiet grey sky and warm with the celebration of Spring Equinox at Tea at Tympani Lane Records. A poetry reading for National Poetry Month at the Atwater Market Montreal is being planned for April 25th at 2:00 p.m. The theme this year is "Food and Poetry". There are 3 books of poetry writing, The Underground Blue, Tale Winds and Candy and Anarchy.

“People are often unreasonable, irrational, and self-centered. Forgive them anyway.
If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives. Be kind anyway.
If you are successful, you will win some unfaithful friends and some genuine enemies. Succeed anyway.
If you are honest and sincere people may deceive you. Be honest and sincere anyway.
What you spend years creating, others could destroy overnight. Create anyway.
If you find serenity and happiness, some may be jealous. Be happy anyway.
The good you do today, will often be forgotten. Do good anyway.
Give the best you have, and it will never be enough. Give your best anyway.
In the final analysis, it is between you and God. It was never between you and them anyway.”
- Mother Teresa (Sage, Catholic Clergy)

"I just always felt that [girls] weren't treated with respect. Especially because women are totally oppressed."
- Kurt Cobain (Singer, Songwriter, Musician)

“a marriage break up is like lightening hitting a tree. very violent.”
- Rebecca Banks (Poet, Singer, Songwriter, Musician, Writer, Artist, Philosopher, Counselor, Activist)

“all God asks of us is to not hurt each other, marry your Starcrossed or more suited lover and follow your calling for work.”
- Rebecca Banks (Poet, Singer, Songwriter, Musician, Writer, Artist, Philosopher, Counselor, Activist)

The following are thoughts on what it means to be a woman . . . for young adults and those looking for direction.

The Calling for Love:

- stay karmically pure (don’t have a lot of lovers, it is emotionally painful and can lead to anger, depression and suicide). The rare woman (I suspect about 5%) may be able to have serial sexual relationships successfully however God would not have sent a Starcrossed Lover on a Sign from God for a longterm happy covenant marriage if He had wanted us to be whores.

- marry your Starcrossed or more suited Lover

- the breaking of the hymen is a physical sign of a spiritual covenant – yet, there may be political rules around this. (see Christmas Special 2011 World Peace Newsletter on discernment in marriage). I suspect the majority of people don’t marry their first lover, but marry their Starcrossed Lover or more suited Lover as their second lover.

- “sex means babies” - be responsible with birth control. Abortions are to be avoided, it is killing something that is alive. If you have a calling to have children, have only 2 unless you have unlimited resources.

- it is important to know what you are doing in your love life to lessen emotional violence. Find out what is going on for your lover and for you before you become intimate.

- don’t curse a leaving lover more than an uppercut, you have 5 chances with 5 different lovers before you turn karmically impure on a Sign from God. It is possible to turn karmically pure again through an arts calling or a special calling for work.  There may be rules around marriage when you are karmically impure, ask questions, even telepathically.

- be well versed in the cultural/political rules and Holy Spirit/Karma way.

- Know what path you are on, what home means. The path of The Oracle is very emotionally violent, if God had wanted us to be whores he would not have sent a Starcrossed Lover for a longterm happy covenant on a Sign from God.

- if a lover seems totally clueless to the cultural/Holy Spirit paradigms, please do some consciousness raising.

- women tend to be more sensitive than men and upon a marriage breakup may suffer greatly. Where on a scale of 1 – 10, a man will suffer say 2 – 4, a woman may suffer 5 – 10.

- do the checklist on (Christmas Special 2011 World Peace Newsletter ) so there is a good chance of your marriage working out in happy covenant in the first five lovers.

- if you are cursed figure out strategy for your love life – how to cause the least emotional violence for yourself and your lover(s), some may choose to be celibate. In my experience, always tell the truth, be upfront about your situation (there are cultural rules about this). Don’t make love to someone as their 5th lover if you can’t stay (because afterwards they will be karmically impure). Stay in the loop with ex-lovers, sometimes things change. There is an old Italian adage, “Love” and “Death” not for monies, it is best to receive large gifts for love affairs and they should be true affairs of the heart. After a certain period of time (15 - 20 years) of following an arts calling or a special calling for work, you may become celibate and become karmically redeemed, you can then make your bed in longterm happy covenant. There are rules around this, ask telepathically.

- if you have multiple love affairs that break, read the mid-November 2011 World Peace Newsletter on how to heal the emotional/Spiritual damage. It is possible to survive rape trauma, heal and have a happy life.

- if there is an essence problem in your marriage you cannot expect to get the attention, growth and sustenance you need from your partner. Disconnects can cause emotional and actual violence when people feel they are not heard, respected or loved enough. It is important to be in a well-discerned and happy marriage with a positive Sign from God. (Christmas Special 2011 World Peace Newsletter) Sometimes there is just a “surface” problem with communication. But in my experience an open thought is as powerful as a spoken word.

- in my experience the world is very contrived and constructed, figure out who has plans for you. There are house constructions for marriages, for elite security paradigms, they may not be simpatico psychological types so it is best to get your longterm happy covenant marriage decided upon in the first 5 lovers. Ask questions.

- be aware of your personal security, it can be possible to be raped and not realize it. (see mid-January 2014 World Peace Newsletter).

Don’t hurt others:

- always tell the truth, it establishes you with a good reputation, it means you can be trusted.

- be in a state of grace most of the time (having not committed mortal sin/broken the 10 Commandments).

- have no enemies. Everyone is born with traditional family friends and traditional family enemies (traditional family enemies may be a lot of trouble depending upon which family you are from. Ask questions.)

- don’t beat on or set up innocent traditional family enemies – if you don’t like someone, just say “hello” in passing and don’t hurt them.

- don’t curse a leaving lover with more than an uppercut. It can lead to depression, paranoia and suicide. And it can ruin your reputation which can affect your social life, job opportunities and your love life.

- pray regularly (at least once a week).

- go to church regularly – it is good to worship with the Community and the Spirit – perhaps find a Church community that fits with your world view and values.

- give to Charity – even just a couple of dollars to a street person and/or keep the grapevine going with true information (there are rules about this so ask telepathically).

- keep up with friends and acquaintances from high school/university/college/work. Stay in the loop. It is good to exchange information and for your social life.

- vote in civic elections.

Follow your calling for work:

- decide on what your calling is for work. Do an aptitude test, match the results with your talents and decide on a course of education. The government is matching job availabilites with education quotas, so people have jobs when they graduate (Canada). This is a good policy, in my experience there are usually 5 or more different jobs associated with the same psychological type, so if there is not job vacancies for one job type you can apply for education for another related job type. If you do not have funding, you can get scholarships, bursaries and student loans. It is good to do this with input from your family, teachers and the school guidance counselor.

- decide on things you want to do with your life. i.e. learn to play the guitar, travel to Europe, go camping and hiking, play sports, volunteer work . . . something you have an affinity for that makes you feel happy when you think about it. And then do some networking with friends, family and the Internet to get what you need to make it happen. It may be important to develop strategies, for raising finances or finding a deal for something you need by networking over the Internet.

- a calling for the arts can be healing, a great reliever of stress, a path for karmic redemption and/or your primary occupation. If you have an affinity for an arts calling - study and practice (see July 2011 World Peace Newsletter).

- if you cannot find work, it is important to give back to the Community in some way, either doing volunteer work, running entrepreneurial businesses or follow your calling for work even if you are not paid for it. In exchange you are getting a welfare cheque or help from the Food Bank and/or low cost housing and/or social services. If you are a wife and mother with a calling to be in the home, following this calling should be recognized as “volunteer work” and you should not be discounted, particularly for the first 5 years of life of a child. It is important that children are raised effectively with love and caring so they grow up to be healthy members of the Community.

The cornerstone of peace for your personal life is a happy marriage, the light of love from such a union reflects on everyone and creates peace in the Community. Most women have a calling to be in the home with husband and children, with part-time work and/or an arts calling. In the Internet Society it is easier to live and work from home, with time for raising children effectively. Goals and dreams are important and life can be quite simple and good when you follow your callings. Despite the upset and violence that may occur it is important to be resilient and be happy anyway. The Way of Peace.



Tea at Tympani Lane Records

Rebecca Anne Banks

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