Tea at Tympani Lane Records

World Message of Peace

It is the time of the Summer Solstice as thoughts turn to putting down peaches and pears, as the Summer harvest begins to arrive in the Markets. The lilacs were out early this season and I brought some into the house. The poetry has morphed and writes. I am in the infringement Festival Montreal this season, there will be a spoken word reading in honour of Symbolist Quebecois Poet Emile Nelligan.

“man thinks, God laughs . . . “
- Jewish Proverb

“A woman knows the face of the man she loves as a sailor knows the open sea.”
Honore de Balzac (Novelist, Playwright)

“Causing the grains some years to bear too much rain and others too much sun until the celebration of the Sun King
had become a dirge of silence. As if the altar had been beaten with rotten corn and the marriage bed was corrupted.
In the heat of Summer, the heart of the fruitgrain had turned rancid in the devastation of Sun that blew out across
the earth, across the land. In the silence of years . . . “
- from The Demaricon by Rebecca Anne Banks

“the world is overconstructed. they makin’ people soldiers.”
- Rebecca Banks (Poet, Singer, Songwriter, Musician, Writer, Artist, Philosopher, Counselor, Activist)

“getting your love life to work in happy longterm covenant is like rocket science.”
- Rebecca Banks (Poet, Singer, Songwriter, Musician, Writer, Artist, Philosopher, Counselor, Activist)

The following are thoughts on the power constructs in love relationships . . .

What is a real love affair?

- no essence problem

- a Sign from God

- poetry and gifts to each other

- the relationship is approved for longterm by your family and Community

- don’t defile the font (sexual defilement can make you lose respect for each other and the relationship may end)

- your goals for the relationship are the same

Making love to a man who leaves you does not offer you emotional protection. For the man it is like conquest, he’s scored, for the woman, it is as if she has lost a war and been vanquished (raped). In my experience when a man sleeps with you he holds the power in the relationship. If he doesn’t talk to you properly, doesn’t sleep with you regularly, if he is unhappy with you, it shows and can affect your health. In a real love affair, he sexually services you and talks to you regularly, offering emotional protection over the longterm. Women are vulnerable, they are usually more sensitive and suffer more if a marriage ends.

The least interested person in the relationship will hold the power in the relationship, determining if the relationship continues or ends. Ideally both parties are well suited psychologically, similar and complimentary, do not like a soul colour the other doesn't like and there is a Sign from God. It is good to do the checklist @ the Noel/ Christmas Special 2011 World Peace Newsletter on Discernment in Marriage before getting involved in an intimate relationship.

There are behaviours by a man that will tell you whether he is staying with you or not, they are different for each white elite family. And there are Signs from God.

A great love affair/marriage should have context, living together is ritual. Making and eating food together, sleeping together, is life in daily ritual. It is a sacred trust, where you protect and nurture each other, creating family over the longterm. A marriage is the sacred cornerstone of personal peace and peace in the society. The Way of Peace.



Tea at Tympani Lane Records

Rebecca Anne Banks

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